Anonymous asked:
Take a deep breath and accept that he will believe whatever he chooses to believe. You need to take a moment to yourself, and realize that you can not please everyone. Unfortunately, it’s not always possible to show others what your honest intentions are, and sometimes people make hurtful assumptions. Preoccupying yourself with his opinion of you isn’t healthy or productive. Brush yourself off, stand tall, and say to yourself “Y’know what? Let him think what he wants.” then proceed to enjoy your life. It may be frustrating, and it may make you upset, but let go of that negativity and wash your hands of both this situation and of him entirely. Who says you want to visit his city anyway? Maybe you have lots of new adventures to seek out in lots of different cities. New people to meet, people you’ve already met who love you for your heart and your good intentions. Don’t let this guy’s portrayal of you as “obsessed” allow you to forget that you are not that girl. Be yourself and be glad that his absence from your life now leaves a little more vacant space for positive people and new experiences. xo

